So.... I'm lost... I've no longer believer there is a decent man on this earth... because the only one I know... Is married. I'm not sure how to react... But I just found out that my husband has been.... Rping quite sexually with someone.... I'm not sure If I should worry about this... because the last ex I had was rping with lots of women sexually,along with using video and such stuff... Now mind you... I didn't go looking for this, I just ran into it. Part of me wants to scream and cry the other part of me wants to cut his balls off.... can anyone tell me if I'm over reacting? I'm actually quite new to all of this stuff and I'm not sure if i should worry about it or not.

Anyways I just quiet.